In a courageous interview with Gary Neville, England star, Dele Alli has revealed that he was molested as a six-year-old child and opened up about his challenging upbringing before being adopted at the age of 12.
The 27-year-old recently returned to Everton for pre-season training following a difficult period in Turkey, during which he sought help for his addiction to sleeping tablets and checked himself into rehab.
During the interview on The Overlap, Dele bravely shared his experiences, saying, “It is something I haven’t really spoken about. There were a few instances. At six, I was molested.”
Neville, who previously coached Dele with the England national team, was visibly moved by the revelation and offered his support, assuring Dele, “You don’t need to be sorry. I feel the fact you are now opening up will make people realize this is something that has been stored inside you, caged, for 15-20 years.”
Dele went on to disclose that he was sent to live with his birth father in Africa after encountering difficulties as a young child.
However, his time there was challenging, as he engaged in negative behaviors such as smoking and selling drugs at a young age.
He explained, “I started smoking at seven and selling drugs at eight. An older person told me they wouldn’t stop a kid, so I would cycle around with my football and the drugs underneath.”
Reflecting on his birth mother’s alcohol addiction, Dele expressed understanding and compassion, noting that her decision to put him up for adoption was a necessary step to provide him with a chance at a successful life.
He emphasized the positive impact of his adoptive family, who provided him with love and support.
Dele acknowledged that he no longer maintains contact with his birth parents due to false accusations they made against his adoptive family.
He expressed feeling betrayed and let down, which led to the breakdown of their relationship.
In sharing his story, Dele hopes to help others facing similar challenges.
He stated, “I realized that going away and talking about it and understanding it more, yeah, I did need help, and it got to the time where I couldn’t do it by myself anymore, and I think that’s the thing people need to understand—that it is okay.”
Dele is currently recovering from an injury and has joined Everton’s squad for their pre-season tour in Switzerland.
He expressed gratitude for the support of manager Sean Dyche during this difficult period and is determined to return to the pitch and showcase his abilities.
This interview not only sheds light on Dele’s traumatic childhood but also serves as a reminder of the importance of mental health and seeking help.